“A Matrimonial Advertiser:” Tracing the Treacherous Trail of an Early 20th-Century Romance Scammer

Sharon Hoyt, CG
Apr 15, 2025
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About this webinar

Research on a man's mysterious second marriage identified his wife as a romance scammer who preyed on Civil War veterans. This case study shows how evidence correlation and reasonably exhaustive research cut through the lies and misdirection in a woman's records to establish her identity and reveal her sometimes deadly deception.

About the speaker

Sharon Hoyt is a researcher, speaker, and author from California’s Silicon Valley. Her primary research areas include New England, New York, the Midwest, Canada, and England. She is happiest when on t...
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Key points and insights

This BCG webinar, "A Matrimonial Advertiser: Tracing the Treacherous Trail of an Early 20th-Century Romance Scammer" presented by genealogist Sharon Hoyt offers a compelling deep dive into a fascinating, real-life case study. Blending investigative rigor with storytelling, Hoyt unravels the complex history of Malinda C. Silsby—a woman who married multiple Civil War veterans under various aliases, likely defrauding them of pensions and property. More than just an entertaining narrative, the webinar serves as an instructive lesson in advanced genealogical techniques for identifying elusive individuals, resolving conflicting evidence, and employing diverse research strategies across jurisdictions.

Key Takeaways from the Webinar:
  • Effective Use of Timelines, Tables, and Maps: Hoyt demonstrates how to track complex life events, name changes, and migrations across state lines by leveraging annotated maps, chronological timelines, and detailed comparison tables. These tools helped her connect records across eight known marriages, including cases of bigamy and fraud.
  • Advanced Search Techniques and Newspaper Research: The case highlights the power of newspaper archives not only as primary sources but as indexes leading to critical court records, pension files, and vital records. Hoyt emphasizes wildcard searches, name variations, and the importance of examining witnesses, occupations, and associates to uncover hidden relationships.
  • Resolving Conflicting Evidence and Proving Identity: With skillful application of the Genealogical Proof Standard, Hoyt correlates inconsistent data from censuses, marriage records, divorce filings, and pension applications to confirm identities despite deliberate deception and frequent alias use. Her analysis showcases how to handle discrepancies in birthplaces, names, and ages with methodological care.
This engrossing case study is a must-watch for genealogists who wish to hone their investigative skills and deepen their understanding of best practices in evidence analysis. Sharon Hoyt's methodical approach provides invaluable lessons on how to handle difficult cases where subjects intentionally obscure their identities.

To explore the full depth of this investigation and see the strategies in action, view the complete webinar at Legacy Family Tree Webinars. Hoyt’s presentation not only teaches practical methods but also inspires persistence and creativity in tackling complex genealogical puzzles.

For those eager to build on these techniques, the syllabus accompanying this webinar offers additional research strategies and resource links. Be sure to take advantage of these materials to strengthen your own genealogical toolkit and uncover the stories that might otherwise remain hidden.

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  1. EH
    Emma Herrity
    7 months ago

    Fascinating and entertaining. Can’t wait for the follow up!

  2. AD
    Andrea Davies
    9 months ago

    Fascinating and a great lesson in detail capture and analysis. Well done, Sharon.

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  3. TJ
    Tammy Jones
    9 months ago

    In less than an hour, Sharon Hoyt has given us all a masterclass of research methodology and a fascinating story. I applaud her tenacity! Thank you!

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  4. HS
    Helen Schenkelaars
    9 months ago

    Fabulous! Entertaining as well as informative. Great case study, fantastic research, and so clearly presented, with lots of tips along the way for dealing with people who changed their names. Loved the signature comparisons and the names/time/place table idea.

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  5. MP
    Marijane Presar
    9 months ago

    Sharon spoke with great enthusiasm and command of her case study. How she kept it all together was short of a miracle. Her study shows us how important it is to keep going on your research and not rule anything out.

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  6. WV
    Webinar Viewer
    9 months ago

    Very well researched

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  7. WV
    Webinar Viewer
    9 months ago

    The best webinar! Not only entertaining, but full of ideas where and how to search for answers when working with difficult situations.

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  8. WV
    Webinar Viewer
    9 months ago

    Sharon is one of best storytellers in our industry! She is amazing. Add that to her incredible research and analytical skills and her presentations are just fabulous.

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